Flat pack life

Life can be like a flat-pack project, can’t it? Some of us like to try it without reading the instructions; some study instructions in detail before plucking up the courage to start; some tend to blame the instructions when they are misinterpreted; some are satisfied with only a couple of screws left over as long as it holds together; yet others are perfectionists who might even add their own touches. Which are you? Recently, I was amused to observe a DIY project involving flat-pack. Three individuals with their own approach, pitching in to a joint venture. There was much collaboration as well as head scratching, discussion and a coffee break. Happily it turned out well in the end but the negotiation along the way was a twisty-turny path that highlighted the personality of each person and required a variety of team working skills to get the job done. My job as a therapist also requires some team working skills. My clients rely on me to be professionally trained, skilful and sensitive to their needs. As facilitator, I provide a safe, private and relaxed space to allow them to take just what they need at a pace that is right for them. But I can’t do my job alone. My client is the other team member. They lead by setting the goal and the agenda but most importantly they are mindfully present. This is when the magic happens. With great team work problems can be solved, ideas exchanged and the load can be lightene